Lillian (Lil) Apodaca, beloved wife, mother, sister, mother-in-law, aunt, grandma, great-grandma, and friend, passed from this life on January 12th, 2020, leaving an indelible memory with each of us who knew and loved her. Her legacy will be treasured forever and will be joyfully passed on to future generations.
Words cannot express the ache and sense of loss felt by all of us whose lives she touched. She was known for bringing family together, having genuine concern for her many friends, prioritizing relationships and making time for the people in her life, for her hospitality, love for her family/relatives/grandchildren and great-grandchildren, her lively wit, ability to remember details, excellent work ethic, her forthrightness, the warm and inviting atmosphere in her home, and delicious homemade meals.
Lillian was born in Holman, NM on September 29, 1931, to her loving parents, Celina and Jose Lovato, and was blessed with three siblings: Will (Mary Lovato), Lucy (Richard Branch), and Marcia (Jim Hutton).
She was married to her husband Robert on July 22, 1963, in Los Alamos, and devoted herself to raising their twins who were born one year later. She also spent time working as a teller at First National Bank, then in travel at LANL. During this time, many around her knew of, and appreciated, the delicate balance that she kept between both her excellent work ethic and her fastidious homemaking skills.
She is preceded in death by her parents, her brother Will, and her sister Lucy.
She is survived by her devoted husband of 56 years, Robert Apodaca, their sons, Paul (Sandra) of Texas (granddaughters Jade and Kellie), and Robert (Susan) (grandson Jonathan (Kendra) (daughters Hadassah and Dellah), Nathan (Casey), Anthony, Leanna Jones (Christian Jones) (son Tovi), Krysta and Renee, all of Colorado). Lillian is also survived by her devoted sister Marcia and her husband Jim Hutton of Los Alamos, as well as many nephews and nieces.
We are thankful to Christ to have had the privilege of walking through life with Lillian and to be able to celebrate such a unique and wonderful person.
A Rosary will be prayed on Thursday, January 16, 2020, at 6:30 PM at Immaculate Heart of Mary Catholic Church in Los Alamos. The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday, January 17, 2020, at 10 AM at Immaculate Heart of Mary. A reception will follow the Mass at the Parish Hall. Burial will take place after the reception at Guaje Pines Cemetery at 1 PM.
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Name | Lillian L Apodaca |
Date of Birth | September 29th, 1931 |
Date of Death | January 12th, 2020 |
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Funeral Home | Rivera Family Funeral Home - Los Alamos | |
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1627 A Central Avenue Los Alamos NM 87544 United States |
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Aunt Lil will remain in our hearts forever. We were so blessed to have her in our lives. Our condolences and prayers are with Uncle Bob, Paul, Bob and the rest of the family. Just know we loved her dearly but will see her again!
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I remember my cousin Lillian from Los Alamos when I worked at foodways. She was a very kind woman. You will be missed by everyone that had the honor of knowing you. My condolences to Robert and her entire family. Rest in peace Lillian and we will all meet in heaven once again. Fly with the Angel's.
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Dear Robert, Paul, Bobby and family. The sadness you are feeling is felt by loved ones around you. Our loss here on earth is Our Lord's gain in heaven. May you find comfort in knowing that you're not alone. Marcia and Jim, our condolences to you both. We love you and pray for all This beautiful family. May Lillian Rest in Peace.
Carmen, Roy, Roy Jr, Anne and Yvonne
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I had the pure pleasure of knowing Lilian for many years as well as her husband Robert. I first met Lilian when she worked as a Teller at the First National Bank of Santa Fe at the Los Alamos Branch. I also interacted with her at the Los Alamos National Laboratory. When God created the sweetest person in the world, it was without a doubt Lilian. I had the greatest respect for this beautiful lady who always had a glorious smile on her face when she greeted me. She and my mother were very good friends. I am sincerely blessed to have known this wonderful lady who I will always remember and miss her very much. My condolences go out to Robert as I know this will leave a huge hollow hole in his life. Thank you Lilian for crossing my path many years ago and allowing me to travel along with you side by side. Love you very much, Dimas M. Chavez
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We are so very sorry to hear of Lillian's passing. We have known her since 1976 when working with her at First National Bank. She was always a caring and wonderful person. We will miss her kind spirit and beautiful smile. Rest in peace.
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We are so very sorry to hear this. She was such a lovely lady with a beautiful smile. Our sincere condolences, Leo Duran, Susie, and Sydnee
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