Raymond "Ray" D. Pacheco

July 20th, 1967 - February 10th, 2017

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Raymond “Ray” D. Pacheco
Age: 49
Resident: Santa Fe, NM
Date of Death: 2/10/2017
Date of Birth: 7/20/1967
Place of Birth: Los Alamos, NM
Mother: Ida Serna Pacheco
Father: Epimenio “Tony” Pacheco
Married to: Mary Pacheco
Date: 11/4/1999
City/State: Santa Fe, NM

Preceded in Death: Father, Epimenio “Tony” Pacheco
Survived by:
Wife: Mary Pacheco
Sons: Anthony Garcia (Andrea)
Bobby Garcia (Mercedes)
Daughter: Wendi Garcia (Roland)
Grandchildren: Santiago Quintana
Samantha Quintana
Soon to be Baby Garcia
Mother : Ida Serna Pacheco
Brothers: Manuel Pacheco
Johnny Pacheco (Debbie)
Ralph Pacheco (Judy)
Sisters: Helen Borrego (James)
Vivian Harper (Dana)
Marie Scorcia (Robert)
Margarita
Stephanie
Father-in-law: Joe Gallegos
Sisters-in-law: Pat Koh (Kilsan)
Debra Zapata
Brother-in-law: Robert Gallegos

Ray passed away at UNMH on February 10, 2017 surrounded by family and loved ones by his side. Ray was born in Los Alamos, NM. He graduated from Los Alamos High School as a “Hilltopper”. He continued his education at NMSU with a BA in Finance. At the time of his passing he resided in Santa Fe, NM.
He had many interests: music, motorcyles, reading and enjoying his furry companions, Tank and Sassy (previous Akitas – Kimo, Sumo, and Daisey).
Growing up in Los Alamos, his younger years were so much fun. He enjoyed riding his bike throughout the town and playing in the canyon on Rim Road. He enjoyed hanging out with Eric Payne and his buddies in high school and college. He enjoyed being the little brother because he was catered to by his older siblings.

Ray enjoyed most of all riding and talking about motorcycles. If you had a minute to talk with him about motorcycles, that minute would turn into hours and then a ride anywhere in New Mexico, Colorado, Wyoming and Idaho! His weekends were for riding, especially with Mary, Johnny, Marie, Bobby, Gary, Larry/Debbie, Will and many many more friends. When he became ill he longed for those days again to escape his pain he had to endure.
His places of employment were with PCS Telecommunications based out of Los Angeles which was a contractor to the NM Correctional facilities; Santa Fe Municipal Court; State of New Mexico; TDI-subcontractor to LANS; and last place of employment was Los Alamos Medical Center. Ray became friends with many of the employees at his places of employment. He cherished his friendships with each one that he encounted. Ray always remained close to several of his co-workers when he left each employment –Fernando Villa, Liz Urioste, Scott Barr, Jan Bentley, Kevin Vigil, Rob Mulikin, Sandy Palmento, Pete Dominguez, Gary Milburn, Mark Karaffa, Brent Butler, Beverly Simpson, Sadie Valdez and many more.
Ray met Mary while working together at Santa Fe Municipal Court. Their friendship grew into marriage for 17 years. Their furry friends were very important to them along with Mary’s children, Anthony, Wendi, Bobby and grandchildren, Santiago and Samantha. Ray was their friend and always gave them the advice as a father –always wanting them to do more than less and will leave an everlasting impact on their lives. Ray was Mary’s soul mate together they enjoyed happy and sad times --but were true to each other.
Ray was very special to his mom, Ida. No one could make the best red Chile like his mother. He enjoyed the times he had with his family living in Los Alamos. He remembered spending time building an airplane with his dad and talking with him. Riding through the Jemez mountains --meeting up with the stunt people who were filming “Wild Hogs”. Driving to Colorado to visit Ralph and Judy to “pick up the little girl”…right Johnny? The hours of reminiscing with Johnny brought so much laughter for hours between the two. Those will be missed.
Ray was a special guy and will be missed by all. These were just a few memories that were important to him.
Ray, there’s no more pain that you need to hide. Thank you for touching our lives and showing us that even though we have pain and problems in our lives, we can still go through each day and smile.
Many “thank you’s” to Dr. Mills, Dr. Sauer, Dr. Robert Kossman, Dr. Chui, Dr. Robert Reidy, Nambe Drugs-Los Alamos, UNMH for all their knowledge, compassion and care for Ray’s health.
A memorial service will be on Sunday, February 19, 2017 at 11:00am. The address is 702 Bishops Lodge Road, Santa Fe, NM 87501.
If you would like to make any donation, please send to your favorite animal shelter near you, in his honor.
Please go to http://riverafamilyfuneralhome.com/ to post condolences.

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	Name	Raymond "Ray" D. Pacheco
	Date of Birth	July 20th, 1967
	Date of Death	February 10th, 2017
	Home Town	Los Alamos, NM, US
	Other City	Santa Fe, NM, US

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	Funeral Home	Rivera Family Funeral Home - Santa Fe
	Address	417 Rodeo Road Santa Fe NM 87505 United States

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Dan Newhouse published a tribute .

I am sadden to hear of Ray's Passing, he was a caring, thoughtful soul. I have been blessed to have worked with him at LAMC, his friendship will always be a bright light in my life. I have some great experiences talking to Ray about life, and motorcycles. He was a extremely genuine person, who thought of others! I will be thinking about Ray's freedom on the motorcycle, each time I ride his Yamaha FJR. RAY....... RIP MY FRIEND!


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Roger Warren published a tribute .

I got to know Ray through my brother Ron and remember when we'd stop by his Mom would call us Mr. Ronnie and Mr. Roger. Her meals were some of the best. I'll never forget Ray's physical strength and his ability to bench press the entire 300+ lb. weight set we had setup at his house. Going to school at NMSU in Las Cruces we attended many of the Aggie football games, various musical concerts and the popular at the time trips down to Juarez, Mexico. But some of the simplest times make for the best memories, such as hanging out late at night playing Frisbee. Ray brought a lot of joy too many people's lives. I will always cherish my many memories of him. My sincerest condolences to all of Ray's Family. God Bless. Roger Warren


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Hutton published a tribute .

The entire Pacheco family is in our thoughts and prayers. We have been blessed to know this family as our own. May the peace of God be with you.
Love in Christ,
The Hutton Family


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Eric Payne published a tribute .


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Eric Payne published a tribute .

Ray my friend, Thanks for being a great friend. You had an incredible impact on my life growing up. I will always remember our adventures.
I will always remember the great times we had camping in the Jemez or on the many trips to Missy's cabin. The times four wheeling in the jeeps, getting stuck and waiting for it to freeze to get out. The trips to Lubbock, Las Cruces, and Juarez. Prying huge boulders off the canyon edge with hydraulic jacks just to watch them roll down. "Combat" inter-tubing down the ski hill on those full moon nights. I remember tipping over that Hobie Cat on Corpus Christi Bay and watching you go straight to the bottom, that is the day I learned you swam like a brick. But most of all, I will always remember just hanging out, having "a beer" [sic] and few laughs. We always had fun, sometimes the more dire the situation, the more fun we had.
Mary, I do not think Ray found true happiness until he met you. You were everything to him. May you find peace in knowing that he was loved by so many and was such an important part of so many lives. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Eric and Kim Payne


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Wendy Hoffman published a tribute .

Ida, I am devastated to read this news. He was such a kind, fun guy, & I enjoyed every minute I knew him. Mary, Maria, & families, my prayers are with you. Losing someone you love presents a daunting journey, but your sweet memories will sustain you. May he rest in piece, now free of his pain. Much love & hugs.


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Wendy Hoffman published a tribute .


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Kathy Garcia published a tribute .

Ray will be missed by all of PT and Cardiac Rehab at LAMC. God Bless you and your family


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Veronica Valdez published a tribute .

My deepest condolences. I am so sad. Ray was an awesome, happy, cheerful person. We will miss him dearly at Los Alamos Medical Center. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Ray can now ride his motorcycle in heaven. No more pain or suffering. See you on Sunday.


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Heide Payne published a tribute .

I first met Ray when he became friends with my son Eric in at Pueblo JH and LAHS, the two of them were part of a close knit group of "jocks" who were all into various sports also getting into mischief along the way. Ray and the others spent countless hours at each others homes and in doing so became part of each others families. Mary you were the best thing to happen to Ray, after he married you he exuded a quiet happiness and contentment and he no longer had a lost quality about him. You made his life worth living so he could endure the pain and suffering. Ray all who knew you will miss you, and I will miss that giggle of yours most of all.
My deepest sympathy to all the Pacheco family. Heide and Roger Payne


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Ron (Ronnie) Warren published a tribute .

My first memory of Ray was in 3rd grade. I couldn't help staring at him thinking "wow, this guys got sideburns!" We became very close friends and had countless adventures through Jr high, high school, and college. He was a truly kind person. My heartfelt condolences to his family - may you soon find peace in his passing.


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Daniel Guevara published a tribute .

Ray was a great friend growing up in Los Alamos to me and many others. Riding bikes, playing in the canyons, we had many many good times - he even made delivering newspapers fun. Ray was my foosball partner and we would play for hours at the bowling alley and Game Room, and his power pull shot was devastating to our opponents, who were often much older than us. Ray was also a dominant force on the football field, and "Sugar Bear" as he was called was a big reason why the Pueblo Junior High Braves went undefeated. So many good times with such a good friend- you will be in our hearts forever Ray! Warmest condolences to Ida and family and all of Ray's loved ones. See you at the Service - Daniel Guevara and Family


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Sanchez published a tribute .

Dear Ida and the rest of the Pacheco family,
In Loving Sympathy. We are very sadden to hear Ray is gone and at this time of sorrow may you find strength in God and comfort in the warm and loving thoughts of others. Our children have many happy memories being friends with Ray growing up in Los Alamos. Yvonne remembers Raymond P. May Ray RIP. Ida take care of your self.
With Love Always,
Carmen, Roy, Yvonne & Roy Jr
Los Alamos/ Albuquerque


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Tom And Frances Frazier published a tribute .

Please accept our condolences to the Pacheco Family on the loss of your loved one. Tom and Frances Frazier, Abiquiu, NM


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Brandon Brooks published a tribute .

Ray was one of my favorite people to work with. Although I only got to meet him in person a few times, the times we did meet were enjoyable. Glad I had the opportunity to work with him at LifePoint over the past few years. Praying for all his friends and family.


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Lori Baldonado published a tribute .

I'm so sorry for your loss. Ray was such a great person and was very friendly. He always went out of his way to say Hi and to see how you were doing. He will truly be missed. May he rest in peace. May you and your family find comfort in the Lord and know that he is now resting. God Bless You Mary and your family.


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Merri Murphy published a tribute .

Mary
Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Your CHRISTUS family is here to support you now and in the days to come. Merri


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Fernando Villa published a tribute .


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Rachel Dunaway published a tribute .

Ray was one of our favorite people! Mary-for myself, Louie, and Dr. Sauer our most heartfelt condolences on your loss. Ray always had a smile, even when you knew he wasn't feeling well. Blessings to you and your family Mary as you grieve his passing. We are here if you need anything. Rachel Dunaway


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Cathy Hadley published a tribute .

I did not know Ray very long, but he was such a nice man.


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Steve Winegeart published a tribute .

Mary, Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time. Ray was a good man and good IT guy. Know the days ahead will be tough but family & friends will be there to support you in this time- Steve & Andra Winegeart


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Wendi published a tribute .

Our Family ❤


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Wendi Garcia published a tribute .

Ray, I love you and will miss you! Thank you for showing my mom a good life. Thank you for teaching my kids what a good dad is like. Ray thank you for raising my little brother. Thank you thank you for dealing with me. I know I was a pain!! I will love you for ever and ever!! Now you can meet your Mother in law. She can tell you how my mom was when she was a little girl.
Ray